I’m absolutely over receiving email from every company I’ve ever foolishly given my email address to about how they are handling Covid-19. I’m also over non-stop news bulletins, statistical updates and bleeting from doomsayers. Mainstream media have a lot to answer for in terms of whipping up Covid-19 hysteria which in turn is feeding the terrifying international financial contagion.
There is no denying the present situation is extremely serious and potentially much more serious but calm and positive behaviour will serve to help us through the battle. Supermarket panic buying is beyond belief.
Some appear to have been driven to the point that they falsely imagine they exhibit Covid-19 symptoms. It is worth noting that in simple terms the symptoms of Covid-19 are; a fever of at least 38°C, a cough, shortness of breath.
I’m impressed with the sensible words of Rhiannon Lucy Cosslett;
1) Avoid (health-related) news.
We all want to keep up to date, but when you have health anxiety the need to check and read the latest updates can become compulsive, feeding the anxiety. Try having a news detox, or allocating yourself a time limit for reading or watching news. If you’re really worried about missing something crucial, you can always tell friends and family to contact you in the event of an emergency situation in order to keep you informed.
2) Try not to seek constant reassurance.
Seeking reassurance can make you feel calmer for a little while, but in my experience, it is always temporary. Your brain creates a feedback cycle where you become increasingly reliant on reassurance, which only serves to reinforce the anxiety. It’s natural to want your loved ones to tell you things will be OK, but when you start needing that reassurance several times a day it’s time to take a step back.
3) Introduce an absolute ban on Googling symptoms.
Dr Google is not, and never will be, your friend, especially not when you are a sufferer of health anxiety. Nor will message-boards and forums. Try to remember that people visit these places when they have reason to be concerned. Once you start understanding it’s a skewed lens, you’ll be better able to put things in perspective
4) Try a countering technique.
This is a CBT (Cognitive Behavioural Therapy) exercise which involves giving a persistent thought to the courtroom treatment, by confronting it with a rational counter-statement. For example, if your persistent thought is something like “Everyone I love will die from this virus” you can counter it with factual statements such as “Actually, most people who get Covid-19 are likely to make a full recovery, and that’s assuming mum, dad and my little sister will even catch it at all.” As my mother always says: “Just because you think something, doesn’t make it true.”
5) Do some exercise.
Even if it’s just star jumps in your bedroom, or shaking your body parts like you’re in the warm-up section of a hippie acting class, exercise will help get the adrenaline out of your system and channel the panic elsewhere.
6) Breathing and grounding exercises.
From guided yogic breathing to using a strong smell (I favoured lavender oil), grounding exercises can help bring you back to reality. I also found bending over to touch my toes and then very slowly standing up starting at the base of my spine to be beneficial, as it centres me. You can look for examples online, but sometimes, something as simple as sitting on the floor can help.
7) Allocate yourself a daily ‘worry period’.
Give yourself half an hour to worry about this to your heart’s content, and then you have to go and do something else.
8) Treat yourself.
Anything that will give you a little boost can help. It doesn’t need to involve spending money: you can also cook yourself something nice, have a hot bath, or listen to a song you love.
9) Remember that your anxious state isn’t permanent.
When you are in it, anxiety always feels as though it will never end, but it will. It’s hard to remember this, but do try. I genuinely thought that I would never recover, and now even though we are in a public health crisis, I feel calm and have things in perspective. It’s a worrying time, and many of us, myself included, will have loved ones who might be showing symptoms, but the tendency to jump to the worst-case scenario very rarely reflects reality. Be kind to yourself. It may be a bit cheesy, but this too shall pass.